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Yay I’m so glad you’re writing again! I love hearing stories about Jon’s many quirks. And I love the way you carry them with you.

I’m sure I told you this at the time, but I was lucky enough to run into Jon at the gym once during his post-chemo hooping days. He was so full of life— you could tell he was in his element. It’s truly confusing to have had that glimmer of hope, and the emotional whiplash from the cancer coming back so quickly. But I still hold that memory in my heart warmly.

P.S. I honestly can’t believe some of the stuff people have said to you, WOW. Like you aren’t dealing with enough right now. Lmk if you need someone to throw hands or write a strongly-worded letter

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Reading Jon's writing was one of the great joys of my basketball-loving life. I selfishly mourned his passing and wondered if I would ever connect with pieces of writing like that again. Evidently, that power runs in the family, because these posts have blown my mind. Your talent for summarizing the joys and sorrows has been a revelation and in reading, I've caught myself stopping to consider my own relationship with the Lord. I can't think of anything in my life to this point that has impacted me in quite the same way. Thank you for sharing.

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Got pointed here tonight after Isaac shared that you and Jackson went to the mavs game. Keep writing.

We talk about Jon at Mavs Moneyball at least once a week. He is so special.

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Melissa, this was a great post.

I never met your husband but was a fan of his writings. I've been praying for salvation for members of The Ringer staff for years and perhaps Jon's life and death have brought many of them closer to Jesus.

I'm so so so sorry at the completely ignorant and unkind things people have said to you. Of COURSE you still miss him.

May the Lord bless you and Jackson and cover you with his pinions (Ps 91) especially during this Christmas season.

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Melissa keep options open for a book. You are that good. Love your honesty in all the things. Love your Jon, and you. And that book you mention by God.

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Man I cherish these posts. You are so wise and the authenticity and fortitude of your faith is so inspiring. I deeply appreciate your perspective on life. Thank you so much for your willingness to be vulnerable.

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Melissa, this was so beautifully written and inspiring! I'm sure it was very difficult to write, but I'm glad you did. Thank you for opening your heart, I am really really proud of you. Continued prayers as you march on each day with "His daily bread".

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love you so much sweet friend! I'm so proud of you

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You are amazing! I love it all. I love hearing about you and Jon’s christ centered relationship. It is inspiring. BTW… I do not think you need any editors at all it is perfect in every way!

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Thanks for this latest post Melissa. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experiences with us, especially when it comes to your relationship with God. How you (and Jon, and I assume many of the people around you) incorporate Christianity in your life is always eye-opening to me. I'm thinking of you and Jackson, and I wish nothing but the best for the both of you. I've only ever known Jon as a writer of basketball articles at the Ringer, but his and your openness about your struggles through illness and grief and all that comes with it is kind of astonishing to me. Thank you, thank you, and thank you.

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